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Regular
Naps to Improve Nighttime Sleep
By Elizabeth
Pantley
According
to sleep research, and motherly experience, the length and the quality
of naps affect nighttime sleep. (And, conversely, nighttime sleep
affects naps.) Babies differ in their napping needs - but here's
a general guide that applies to most babies:
|
Age
|
Number
of Naps |
Hours
of Naptime |
| 4
months |
3 |
4
- 6 |
| 6
months |
2 |
3
- 4 |
| 9
months |
2 |
2
1/2 - 4 |
| 12
months |
1
- 2 |
2
- 3 |
| 2
years |
1 |
1
- 2 |
| 3
years |
1 |
1
- 1 1/2 |
When
should your baby nap?
Timing of naps is important. A nap too late in the day will negatively
affect nighttime sleep. Certain times of the day are better for
napping because they suit your baby's biological clock; these optimum
periods balance sleep and wake time to affect nighttime sleep in
the most positive way.
All
babies are different, but generally, the best nap times are as follows:
-
If baby takes three naps: midmorning/early afternoon/early evening
- If
baby takes two naps: midmorning/early afternoon
- If
baby takes one nap: early afternoon
Watch
your baby's sleepy signals!
Naps should happen immediately when your baby shows signs of tiredness.
If you wait too long, she becomes overtired, "wired up," and unable
to sleep.
Once
you are familiar with the your baby's nap needs you can plan a nap
routine to start the wind-down process. If consistent naps are new
to you look more for your baby's signs of tiredness and scrimp on
the routine until you settle into a predictable pattern. In other
words, don't begin a lengthy pre-nap routine if your baby is clearly
ready to sleep! Watch for these signs of fatigue; your baby may
demonstrate one or more of these:
-
decreasing activity
- quieting
down
- losing
interest in people and toys
- rubbing
eyes ? looking "glazed"
- fussing
-
yawning
- laying
down
- caressing
a lovey or asking for a pacifier, bottle or to nurse
Timing
is very, very important!
You have probably experienced this scenario: Your baby looks tired
and you think, "Time for a nap." So, you wash her hands and face,
change her diaper, answer a phone call, put out the dog, and head
for baby's crib or the family bed, only to find that she's suddenly
wide awake and anxious to play!
What
happened? She has moved through her window of tiredness and gotten
that "second wind" that buys her another hour or two of alert time
before she re-enters her tired state. This can often happen later
in the day. Suddenly, your baby is (finally!) ready for a nap at
dinnertime, and the plot thickens- do you put her for a late nap
and thus extend bedtime, or keep her awake and deal with a tired,
fussy baby? Rather than face this ordeal, respond earlier to her
signs of fatigue and get her in for her nap right at that time.
Once
you have watched your baby carefully for a week or so, you should
be able to create a nap schedule that works with her daily periods
of alertness and tiredness, thus making your nap schedule easy to
adhere to.
The
nap routine
Once you've established a nap schedule for your baby, it is very
helpful if you create a simple but specific nap routine. This routine
should be different from your nighttime routine, although it can
have similarities that signal sleep- for example, the presence of
a lovely or special sleep-inducing music.
Follow
your nap routine the same way every day. (Except, as I mentioned
before, if your baby is showing clear signs of being tired and ready
to sleep. Then abbreviate or even eliminate your routine for that
day.)
For
a reluctant napper, your routine might include some relaxing motion,
such as rocking/relaxing in a swing/walking in a sling or stroller,
and some gentle lullaby music. A nap routine doesn't have to be
long and involved to be effective. If your baby's nap occurs about
the same time every day there will be many subtle cues, such as
the timing of his lunch, that tell your baby that nap time is nearing.
Better
naps mean better nighttime sleep.
Excerpted with permission by McGraw-Hill/Contemporary Publishing
from The
No Cry Sleep Solution Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through
the Night by Elizabeth Pantley, copyright 2002 Website: http://www.pantley.com/elizabeth
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