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Anna
Jarvis -- Founder of Mother's Day
By Patricia R. Chadwick
Anna
Marie Jarvis was born in Webster, West Virginia on May 1, 1864.
According to historical records, at an early age, Anna heard her
mother express hope that a memorial would be established for all
mothers, living and dead. Anna's mother, Mrs. Anna M. Jarvis, had
been instrumental in developing "Mothers Friendship Day" which was
part of the healing process of the Civil War. Mrs. Jarvis had established
a group of Mother's Day Work Clubs in Webster, Grafton, Fetterman,
Pruntytown, and Philippi, (West Virginia) to improve health and
hygiene practices and conditions before the beginning of the Civil
War. During the Civil War, Mrs. Anna Jarvis urged the Mothers's
Day Work Clubs to declare their neutrality and to help both Union
and Confederate soldiers. The clubs treated the wounded and fed
and clothed soldiers that were stationed in the area.
Near
the end of the war, the Jarvis family moved to the larger town of
Grafton, West Virginia. Naturally, as West Virginians fought on
both sides during the war (the state, incorporated into the Union
in 1864, was part of Virginia before the war), there was great tension
when the soldiers returned home. In the summer of 1865, Anna Jarvis
organized a Mothers's Friendship Day at the courthouse in Pruntytown
to bring together soldiers and neighbors of all political beliefs.
The event was a complete success promoting friendship and peace.
Mothers' Friendship Day became an annual event for several years.
After
the death of her father in 1902, Anna --along with her mother and
sister, Lillie -- moved to Philadelphia to reside with her brother,
Claude. It wasn't long after that her mother died. When Mrs. Jarvis
died on May 9, 1905, her daughter Anna was resolved to honor her.
She also felt that even though the U.S. was a hard working, industrialized
nation, the adult children of her generation had become negligent
in the treatment of their parents. In 1907, Miss Anna began a campaign
to establish a national Mother's Day. Anna led a small tribute to
her mother at Andrews Methodist Church on May 12 of that year, the
2nd anniversary of her mother's death. It was from that moment on
that she dedicated her life to establishing a nationally recognized
Mother's Day. By the next year, Mother's Day was also celebrated
in her own city of Philadelphia.
Miss
Jarvis and her supporters began to write to godly ministers, evangelists,
businessmen, and politicians in their crusade to establish a national
Mother's Day. This campaign was a success. By 1911, Mother's Day
was celebrated in almost every state in the Union. In 1914, President
Woodrow Wilson made the official announcement proclaiming Mother's
Day as a national holiday that was to be held each year on the second
Sunday of May.
The
one-woman crusade of Anna Jarvis is often overlooked in history
books. Women during the early 1900s were engaged in so many other
reform efforts that the history behind Mother's Day is often neglected.
It is likely, however, that it was these other reforms and the avenues
they opened for women that paved the way for Anna Jarvis to succeed
in her campaign for Mother's Day.
It
must be noted that, while Miss Jarvis spent most of her adult life
striving to create a special day to honor mothers, in the end, she
was disappointed with the way Mother's Day turned out. As the popularity
of the holiday grew, so did its commercialization. What she had
intended as a day of sentiment quickly turned into a day of profit.
In the end, shortly before her death, Anna Jarvis told a reporter
that she was sorry she ever started Mother's Day.
Patricia
Chadwick is a freelance writer and creator of History's Women Website
at www.HistorysWomen.com. Visit her site and sign up for her FREE
weekly newsletter. Patti is also author of the newly released book
"History's Women - The Unsung Heroines" available in both e-book
and print format at: https://www.webbserv.net/historyswomen/form.html
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